If you haven’t read Part I, you can read it here: The Six-Step Guide To Using Your Intuition-Part I. From Christian Carter here’s step two:

Step #2: Stop Trying To Make Sense Out Of A Man

The best thing you can ever do for yourself
and your peace of mind when dating or in a
relationship is to stop trying to make sense of
a man and how he thinks and feels.

It will only make you feel frustrated and
distract you from your intuition.

How many women do you know who make the
self-defeating mistake of constantly thinking and
worrying about what the man in their life is
thinking and feelings… instead of getting
clear on things for THEMSELVES?

You don’t have to tell me… I already know
the answer to that one.

LOTS of women you know make this mistake.

The unfortunate reality is that YOU might be
one of these women.

Knowing what a huge mistake this is, and
seeing how it screws up other women’s lives as
well as their relationship doesn’t make you immune
from doing the same.

This mistake is common because it’s so easy
to make and happens without you even noticing
that you’re doing it.

It will keep you from allowing YOUR OWN
thoughts and ideas from becoming clear.

To learn about things you don’t already
know, like intuitive ideas, you have to look
with a different set of eyes – not
the same ones you always use for YOURSELF.

In other words, don’t compare how a man thinks
and behaves to how YOU think and behave.

Can I get an “Amen?” I mean come on ladies. How many times have you done this especially when things aren’t going well in your relationship? Christian is so right here. When we try to figure out the hows and whys of his behavior, we are completely overshadowing our own thoughts and feelings leaving us unable to “get clear” about them.

Personally, I know that this is one of the issues I’ve had in relationships and something I need to work on. How about the rest of you?

Be sure to tune in next Monday for Part III.

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